Bit of background - Dh and I decided to start ttc over 5 years ago. His idea mostly with the view that he would be a satd and I would return to work as I'm the main bread winner. Fast forward to now when after ivf we have a wonderful 7 month old son.
I have returned to part time work since P was 5 months old. I work 2 1/2 to 4 days a week and most of my work days are long (I'm gone for 11 hours plus). Dh is not coping well with being at home with P. Many times I come home exhausted to find them both in tears. P is a poor sleeper and I've been doing the majority of the night care so I'm averaging 4 to 5 hours of broken sleep per day.
Am I being unfair wanting dh to step up? I feel like I have 2 babies. I prepare everything for dh on my work days - I have all P's meals, clothes etc ready, I put sandwiches in the fridge for dh, I make sure the nappies are stocked abd the nappy bin empty. Dh does help out. He gets dinner ready most nights (once I'm home and take over baby duties).
Dh and I have been fighting a lot. He thinks that I'm a b!tch for not paying attention to him when I get home and he's upset. Usually I'm busy settling P, getting washing done and trying to tidy up. Am I being unfair?
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