Ds1 is 3.5.
He hates swim lessons. He hates the teacher (he's a great teacher, just tough) and because ds is very very skinny he feels the cold a bit more- it's a heated pool but ds is in the 3rd centile for weight, so he gets colder quicker.
Its a family run business that's been there 30 years, so I know they're good. It's just that the teacher doesn't cuddle and hug and that's what ds wants.
I don't think theres much chance of changing teachers as the guy we have is the owner and he rakes all the preschoolers.
I don't want him to quit coz I don't want him to think he can quit anything in life, but the crying in class on Friday is almost unbearable.