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    I'm angry that I'm in a position like his I'm angry that she made this even a situation. I shouldn't feel hesitant about contacting her, I shouldn't even be questioning it all but because of her I am.
    I'm angry at what she did to me, said to me and put me through. I'm angry that when I needed her she wa to caught up in herself to give a hoot.

    I was at peace with having her out of my life, it took me a long time, counselling, crying ad if anything all it's done is stirr up all these things I thought I had moved on from.

    There's what I want to do and what I should do and the feeling like no matter what I pick its wrong.

    I'm probably making no sense but needed to get it out get others perspective and hear what other would do. I can't wait til DH comes home all I want is a hug.



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    I know it's not the same but hug, hug, hug, hug, hug, hug.

    Again cr@p situation

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    That's a sukky situation OP.

    If you did make contact and it was another prank, could you deal with it?

    If you could just shrug it off then maybe do make contact, in case it truly is serious.

    But I wouldn't blame you for not bothering. It's an unfair position to be in in the first place.

    Hugs to you xx

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    I've just been on the phone to SIL who said she would try to contact them to Sus things out for me.



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    Glad to hear your husbands family give you the support you can not get from your own family. Good Luck - i hope everything works out for you.

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    They are amazing in all honesty mil has Been my rock since DD was born. The last 2 years have been hurdles after hurdles with family, DD medical issues, relocating. She has been more of a mum to me in the last 2 years then my mum ever was.



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    Hopefully your SIL can suss it out. Sounds like they might be playing games. How awful for you

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    To be perfectly honest if you've cut ties with all of them I don't see why you would contact them if they are ill? I find this so hypocritical. Like someone who refuses to have anything to do with a person for whatever reason but then decides to go to that person's funeral. (Not having a go at you at all, please don't take it that way). I cut my mum out of my life and even when she's on her death bed I won't be going to see her.

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    With the whole pop situation I made contact becase although he never stood up for me he never miss treated me he never spoke Ill of me or DH or my kids. So when I was told he ha a stroke I could not not see if he was ok.

    On the other hand my mum has done some awful awful things to me and my family , said some nasty vile things and been a sh!t bag of a so called mother and grandmother.

    It's like my gut, head and heart are all pulling me in different directions



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    I think that getting someone to make an enquiry will stop you from constantly thinking "I wonder". I know it would drive me crazy not knowing. Once you know if it is true or not you can then make a more informed decision on the action (or lack of) you feel comfortable taking.
    I dont think it is hypocritical AT ALL. I think you are incredibly brave especially since you have already mentioned the emotional baggage you had to over come the first time. I hope your SIL can find something out for you soon so you can then decide.

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