I have been talking to mil this morning who informed me she got a note on her door early this morning that said that my mum has had some serious health issues arise and would like to get in contact with me.
I haven't seen or spoken to any of my family in 2 years they have none of my contact details, no numbers, no address ( we moved like 12 hours away) and the only way to get in contact is through mil as she has been at the same address for over 10 years.
I'm feeling very confused, I mean the things my mum and family did for me to cut all ties was terrible and I promised myself never ever again. About a year ago they also left a note saying my pop had had a stroke and was at a certain hospital should I wish to contact him. Well I did and they had no recognition of him being admitted at all. Then I tried ringing my nana home number (she's had the Same number for as long as I can remember ) and my nan answered and I asked her if pop was ok that I had tried ringing the hospital an they said he wasn't there and she just laughed and hung up.
Do I take this seriously?
I'm so confused on one hand despite everything if it is real I'm sad, upset yet apart of me doesn't believe it's real, doesn't want to waste Time and energy finding out if it is.
I don't want to be sucked into the silly games if this infact is one.
I've been sucked into these games before, I've been manipulated and hurt by her before. Is it wrong that I don't believe it and that even if it true no matter how upsetting that I still don't want any contact with her?
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