So i just had a man come to my door who said the following 'sorry to bother you so late in the evening, but I think my daughter is your neighbour. Do you know if the person who lives in that apartment (points to the door perpendicular to ours) is called ****?' (not the name of our neighbour) I told him I don't really know who lives there, and he started asking what they look like, if it's a couple or just one person, and I said 'look I really honestly don't know who lives there, I'm sure I've seen people but I wouldn't be able to say. I know the man who lives there (point to door next to ours) very well (true) but I don't see the neighbour on that side almost at all.' He was a bit persistent and I ended up saying 'i'm sorry but I'm going to have to go, my husband is asleep and I'm about to go to bed now too' and shut the door. DP is actually out at the movies but I didn't want this guy to know I was alone. I kept the screen door locked the whole time.
I'm a bit shaken up by it and not sure what to do. Should I tell my neighbour there's some guy asking about her house? I wasn't lying when I said I barely know her. I know her name and we say hello but I almost never see her around. What if it's really her dad? Or if it's just a case of mistaken identity I don't want to freak her out. I'm not sure whether to tell her or leave it? Or even tell the police? Possibly an overreaction but I really don't know.