Ds went to a friend's house today. He's been there a fair bit and there have never been any issues. When I dropped him off I specifically asked what time they wanted me to pick him up knowing that they go to church on a sunday. I was told that he could stay until whatever time because his friend would be staying home with his aunty.
Around 2.30 we get a txt saying that Ds's friend was feeling sick and could we come and get him. No worries, but when ds got in the car and we asked him what was wrong with his friend he said he was fine. He then proceeded to tell us that instead of the rest of the family going to church they all stayed home and listened to it on the phone. The excuse given was to ds was because he was there and we didn't come and get him in time. Ds felt really guilty about it and thought he was in trouble. I'm just really peeved that she's placed blame on me and my son for something that is not the fault of either of us.
I honestly feel like not allowing ds to go there anymore. She's turned funny on dh and me before and stopped talking to us for unknown reasons but always contacts us when she needs a break from her ds and sends him here for the night. I'm starting to feel like we're being used a little.
Sent from my pho....oh who am I kidding. It's rarely used as a phone