I was never ever done at #3. I tried so hard to pretend J was and was over the moon when #4 was conceived after 5 minutes of discussing having another one! Lol!
The pregnancy was hard though. I was so sick and really tired. And now she is here life is hectic and wonderful.
There is no way I could stretch myself to have another one.
I love labour and birth though and would do all that again in a heart beat! But I owe it to my kids to be the best mother I can possibly be and that means for ME we are absolutely done at #4.
I'm 32 and looking forward to being 40 and having all of them well and truly at school and finally having a career after studying!
I agree with PP, just the fact that you've asked means you're not done!