Good evening! I gave birth to my 10pound son 6 months ago. I was traumatised by the birth for different reasons and also suffered a second degree tear. DH and I have DTD a couple of times but each time It causes me so much pain. I feel as though he is tearing me in half. Now, I just don't want to DTD and poor DH doesn't like hurting me. Being my first born I have no idea if this is normal? If it is how long till it doesn't hurt anymore? Or should I be seeing a doctor?