She's 3, does she need a party? Seriously. We did the whole extended family thing for our ds's 1st Birthday, then it was just immediate family (which is still 15 people) of me & my dh from then on. Our ds only had his first party with friends, not family at age 5. I wouldn't be paying $15 - $20 a head for a bunch of 3yo's who may barely interact with my child to come to a party, but that's just me.