You have done amazing cutting down from 30 to just 2-3. My first 2 pregnancies I wasn't able to quit either but cut down so I know how hard it is finally I managed to quit with medication. It amazes me how the minute a baby is conceived everyone becomes a expert in pregnancy and child rearing and feels it is their place to pass judgment. You did the right thing reporting him and no one has the right to treat someone like that. We teach children not to bully but how they ever meant to learn when there are **** hats like this guy around.