I have been reading along but have not really wanted to say anything about us. We do not have the children anymore. The foster company decided after 6 months they were not adapting. Our hearts were broken. The little girl did not want to go but the little boy was happy. I enjoyed being a mum for the short time and miss them dearly. We have decided not to go through this again, it is too hard. We did not hear from the company for 3 months after they moved the kids either (not a lot of support given) and have not heard from again.
I would recommend to anyone thinking about this to try and talk to people who are permanent foster carers first so you can get a better bigger picture.
I want to send big Congratulations to all the BFP's and new mums and dads
Also I am sorry to see the BFN's
I will remain childless now and concentrate on DP's grandkids.
All my best wishes to everyone