Success has meant different things to me at different stages in my life. When I was young it was being independent and self reliant, materialistic pursuits like nice things, travel, great career etc. As I got older it became more about being a good person, companionship and finding happiness within myself.
Now with 2 toddlers it's managing to have a shower and keep my kids alive . If I manage those 2 things every day then that's success to me!