So, I see threads on here occassionally about unplanned pregnancies(2nd, 3rd, 4th pregnancies) where money has been a major factor causing stress. Most of the responses are "it will all work out in the end" etc as a form of comfort maybe
My question is, did it all work out in the end?
Did your mortgage get paid? did you rack up credit card debts? was it stressful? I assume you all love the child you got, but would you do it all again in your 'ideal life'
I ask because we have no savings, we use DH's wage for mortgage and mine for food, bills etc (DH can contribute a bit to what I cant pay and the paid parental leave will help for 18 weeks, but then i'd have to go back to work... not ideal!) I really want another baby... was supposed to start trying last night, but money freaked me out! I've been talking about this baby since my last baby, but get anxiety at the thought of 'losing everything' etc