I had my appointment with the dr on Monday and things didn't go quite well as planned. But we are going in a different direction. The dr recommended I loose about 10-15kg which I knew was coming. But after further discussion he recommended putting ttc on hold for 8 months get weigh loss surgery and be healthy for a pregnancy. After much discussion with dh my parents and friends who have had the surgery I'm going to go ahead with it. At the moment all the things I've done to get rid of my weight hasn't worked and I am worried about my future health. I don't have any issues now but in 10 years time who knows. And ultimately if that means I get a little one iny arms then ill do anything. I want to be healthy for my husband and future children and right now a year is not too far away.
I've made the appointment to see a surgeon who has come highly recommended and I'm going to do this.
Our appointment went in a whole other direction but one that I'm confident with
I've been ttc for a very long time now and I wished I had been smarter about my self when I came off the pill 8 years ago.