Hi whoever happens to read this. I need advice. I have a 1.5 year old And 4 month old twins. One of the twins cries. A lot. I don't know what to do, it's depressing me so much that I find myself crying all the time. I don't have any support and my husband can't take time off work otherwise he doesn't get paid and we need the money.
It's almost like DS has no patience. He needs a change he cries, he needs a feed he cries, he needs sleep he cries, he wants to be held he cries, he doesn't want to be held he cries. I go through everything and sometimes none of it helps. Sometimes I have to let him cry without any attention to give the other 2 attention as well. And get things done around the house because DH doesn't so them. I just don't know what to do any more. I find myself crying a lot as well because I don't know what to do and the crying goes on. Now don't get me wrong he is happy as well he has a beautiful smile and he smiles a lot as well but the crying seems so much more. My husband asked me if I was ok one time he seen me crying and I told him I don't know what to do. He went on about other things, like paying bills and stress things that had nothing to do with it. He doesn't understand, he's not here all day, and he can pick him up while I tend to the others. So he doesn't understand what it's like. I love all my babies but I just don't know what to do about to crying. It's frustrating and painful, sad and annoying. On top of it I am tired as well. I just don't seem to be abler I make this DS as happy as my other 2 and I just feel like crying all the time.