Ok so I had my 3rd baby 3 months ago and DTD for the first time last Friday. All went well with that, it wasn't painful or anything. However fast forward to tonight and I am having jabbing pains in my lady bit and lower belly?? Do you think they are connected? I am also not so sure the condom worked how it should, as there wasn't really anything in it? Do you think this pain is caused by any of the above? I haven't had a period yet either.