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    Oh yeah and b123, I have a family history of fybromyalgia but my protocol is less aggressive than most of you ladies as i am ttc rather than doing ivf, as dr m explained it. Will see how it goes, if not successful I will push for more next time

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    Congrats on the great numbers Crofty and fantastic news that the spotting has settled. Fingers crossed everything will be great from here.
    B123 - sending you lots of baby dust and hoping Those little embryos are snuggling in nicely.

    Timetoshine - they sound like great symptoms. Hope to hear some good news from you soon.

    Litefantastic - hope all is well with you. You must be close to BT. Fingers crossed for a positive result

    AFM - it feels strange posting on here and Facebook as I often feel I am repeating myself but still think it is important to give updates so people who aren't on Facebook can still follow. Had my first intralipid infusion on Tuesday which went really well other than a minor bleeding difficulty thanks to the clexane. I am on cd3 now, so am in the stimming phase and have my next scan and bloods on Tuesday.

    All the best to everyone, wherever you are at in your pregnancies and cycles.

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    Hi ladies

    Had 20week scan yesterday and news was not good...our lil Chilli has an enlarged bladder with a blocked uretha so no urine is being secreted into sac which also means there is no amniotic fluid around the baby...we saw specialist today & kidneys are also damaged...they drained the bladder by inserting a needle through my stomach & sent away the fluid to test it but they have told us termination is the kindest and best option as our bub may not survive after birth or need palliative care and maybe kidney transplant after but they really dont know or cant tell damage until after baby is born but they say the chance of survival are slim...

    I'm so shattered, devastated, destroyed. I don't know what to do. I'm so sorry for posting this on here but you all have become my support network and you all know especially, the earlier ladies on what I have been through to get here..

    We have told our parents but that's it & they have told us only we can decide which way to go. I have tried to research all I can but here is nothing to say likely hood of damage and chances of survival after so I'm just so lost..


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    Cycle # 5 lucky transfer # 8....Feb 2013
    PGD + Dr M's protocol with Intralipids and finally my BFP Due Oct 2013

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    Oh Kiwi - my heart is breaking for you and DH - when will you know definate results before any final decisions need to be made??? My thoughts, prayers and wishes are with you, DH and baby chilli at this difficult time - I am hoping for one of those miracles - we're not given many, but hoping this is yours xoxo all my love xoxo

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    Oh kiwi 😢 I'm so so sorry! That is a terrible situation to be in and a decision no one would ever want to make. 😔Take your time and we are here for you. Maybe worth a second chat to the specialist once you have had time to think it through and have some more questions. Big hugs and my thoughts are with you and dh xoxoxo

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    Quote Originally Posted by crofty View Post
    Oh Kiwi - my heart is breaking for you and DH - when will you know definate results before any final decisions need to be made??? My thoughts, prayers and wishes are with you, DH and baby chilli at this difficult time - I am hoping for one of those miracles - we're not given many, but hoping this is yours xoxo all my love xoxo
    We will have the results on Monday which will determine if we can place a shunt in the bladder to drain into the sac but if test come back poorly then they won't give us this option and we will have to terminate. If they come back ok then the choice will be ours... I too am praying for a miracle but am I being selfish if I decide to keep the baby and have the lil bub go through a life time of issues or am I being selfish if we terminate I just don't know...
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    Oh my god kiwi...nooo....I can't even fathom what has happened!! We are all here to support, listen, research and do anything at all that you need. I just broke down crying for you telling my husband about this. Not only has your journey been long, but I remember actually checking your progress constantly and having tears of relief when you were bleeding heavily in early pregnancy and your lil chilli survived. Eventhough i have only joined the thread in past couple of months, I have followed your journey a very long time from afar. Maybe there is even a very small chance that your little battler can survive this? Will you get another opinion? And yes, as crofty said how long do you have to decide what is best for your family? My heart breaks for you for what you are faced with....all the love, support and prayers I have to give from afar is being sent to your family in spirit right now xxx

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    Just read above, so you will know more on Monday. If results are good I don't think you are being selfish at all by giving your baby a chance at life...I hope this isn't the wrong thing to say, but sometimes miracles happen and maybe if Monday works out there is a chance when then baby is born it won't be as bad as they think? Like the doc says, they can't really know until bubs is born. There is no way either decision is selfish...it will be what is right in your heart for your family. As hard as it is i guess delaying the torture of needing to make the decision until Monday will be all you can do. Oh kiwi, i pray from now until Monday passes as quickly as possible so you can know more. Xxxx

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    Kiwi, I am so sorry you are going through this after everything you've already endured TTC.

    We will all be here to support you no matter which path you choose. YOu are faced with a decision no parent should ever have to face. I hope that Mondays results give a clearer picture of your options.

    Vent to us as much as you need, this is so unfair.

    Sending you massive hugs xx

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    Kiwi I am so so so deeply sorry, words cannot describe sometimes for no reason life isn't fair. Neither 'choice' that you have is selfish, nor will be the 'decision' that you come to. I hope that Monday brings some clarity and that things are not as bad as what the doc has prepped you for. I am sending love, hope and hugs for you, DH and Lil Chilli xxx

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