ah to hell with it...maybe i just need to bite the bullet and get blo*dy facebook!!!lol
i must admit it is very annoying when you go to shops, or see things advertised, and they say - 'see this on our facebook page' - and i can see it but can never post a question, then i have to work out their email address etc etc...and the amount of parties, announcements etc etc (not that we are social butterflies atm) that we always miss out on because friends forget we are not on facbook.
the one big thing for me though is, i understand you can make the page private - but is there a way to make yourself invisible on other people's pages? eg. if i had a friend and i made my page private, could all her friends see she was friends with me? and therefore could send a friend request even if i didn't want them to? i guess we would have to get used to just ignoring friend requests and not worrying about offending people! not that we are hugely popular lol...i just have no interest in having old friends that mean nothing from donkeys years ago having access to my photos and what i am doing in my life. i don't have the need to approve friend requests so i have heaps of friends on facebook and look popular lol, i'd rather keep my life as simple as it is now