Ds is 2 and a half and currently attends daycare 3x a week. Ive spotted him more than a few times recently that he wont allow his friends to share toys (esp of there are other kids who like to grab his toys) and even play together when someone comes over and takes a peek of what he is doing - he would even try to push that person away... The biggest problem is that he would attack the other kids by lightly smacking them or pushing them away. One second i saw him doing that i would take him away before the fighting became serious. My question is why? And how come a two yr old knows about smacking down someone? This is certainly not an acceptable behaviour for dh. We never teach him violence and ive talked to him about playing and sharing nicely. He might have seen other kids getting into a fight as well but he now seems to be doing that as well every now and then. To be honest Im tired and scared that i might not be able to control his behaviour.