Just put my DS to bed without dinner. We have struggled with fussy eating for about 8 months and tonight I gave him one of his favourites (there are very few) pasta. Anyway he ate two or three forkfulls and then refused any more. So I did what the "experts" recommend. I took him out of the highchair, gave him about a 20 min break and tried again. He spat it at me so I took it away again gave him a bath and dressed him for bed then tried again he refused again so I said that's it nothing else and put him to bed. I'm not looking forward to the night ahead. How do I get over the feeling that I should have given him something else, even though he probably would have refused that too. I feel awful.