Which one would you pick
Ava Viola Rose
Ava Melita Rose
dh likes viola more (it was actually a compromise, i wanted violet cos it is my twin sisters middle name- she died just before we were born. But dh wasnt so sure about using a name that reminds people of a deceased person. As a sorta joke i said viola and he went for it (men!!) so we agreed until the baby book opened on the page it had melita on. I fell in love with the name instantly.
dh likes melita but i love it and am leaning more towards melita cos i worry that viola might get some fynny reactions.
what do you think about the names (honestly)