My dp has 2 children from a previous relationship and I have 1 18 month old. We had decided to start trying again, although my dp is more than happy with 3. I did fall pregnant but am losing the pregnancy now.
i am seriously considering leaving things the way they are. I have severe skin issues and need medicine that is not comparable with pregnancy/ bfing. Plus taking our family to 4 means massive, massive changes like house, car etc.
i am also 38 so I don't have ages of fertility left. Part of me thinks I should be happy with my family as is but I worry I may regret this down the track.