I'm tentatively moving out of here.... I have my dating scan coming up mon week.... I'm so nervous praying this is my take home one. I'm finding it so hard not to compare to last time too
Sending sticky baby dust to us all xo
Thanks @lilyloubelle - Hun, one loss is more than enough and there are plenty of ladies who have the one heartbreaking loss and go on to have their family with no problems. I have full belief that this will be you! Thank you for all of your support along the way Hun and I hope to see you in the due groups ASAP xxx
@mrsjaguar - from the bottom of my heart, I wish you your BFP (with a take-home bubba at the end!!!) success with this, your lucky last emby xo
Thanks @Sabochan - are you back to TTC this cycle Hun? All the best x
Thanks @Sally1981 xx
Hope you're coping ok @deany and being kind to yourself with lots of support xxx
Yeah I think so. I've decided not to bother with the rubella booster, knowing the last two haven't done anything to help my immunity.
I need to get back into TTC. I can't stop thinking about it. Next month will be 17 months since we started trying and Friday is 1 year since my first mc. Not doing so well with the hormones AF has brought.
Hi ladies. Need a safe place to let this out.
2 months ago we had our 3rd loss. I had 2x very faint postive tests and was late for af. Knew it wasnt going to stick when I did the 2nd test a few days later and no change in the line. Af turned up 2 weeks later much more painful than normal and a lot heavier. Did a test afterwards and was completely negative.
I feel guilty in a way I haven't acknowledged it. I didnt even tell dh until recently- I figured he didnt need to know, there's nothing he could have done and he was away anyway. I feel silly for wanting to acknowledge the loss, even though it was so early. I mean, we acknowledge our last chemical (different circumstances though) but why do I feel so strange acknowledging this one? I want to, but am I weird for wanting to??
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Lil miss, you feel what you feel and there's no right way to be. That pregnancy was real, for as long as it lasted, that's not an opinion, it's a fact. I've made my mind up not to double down on my feelings anymore and I feel so much more free. Half the people who judge others for things like this seem to overreact over something else. It's their insecurities. The day your pregnancy ended was the day you lost the potential for something wonderful. That is no small thing and you should deal with it how you see fit without worrying about what's right. Truth is, no one knows what's right anyway.
Sorry for your loss.
LilMiss I did the same thing for my third mc-I didn't acknowledge it to my friends/fam but decided to at our wedding. I'm not sure why? I guess I just wanted people to know. The first time everyone knew and I was so embarrassed, the second time only my family knew and I was numb then the third time I just hated my body so much and couldn't bare to face people or share what I perceived as an imperfection of me-not the perfect angel I lost but of ME.
It's so tough. Hugs to you xx
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