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    I'm really sorry for your loss poida. People say silly things sometimes and it hurts when that happens. As others said, your DH is probably trying to find a way to cope as well. It's hard for them in different ways to us I think. No one asks how they're coping etc. He may be just looking for a way to be strong for you. Hugs to you both.

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    Big big hugs Poida, I agree that it really doesn't help that he can't be your one person who totally gets how you feel and that you'll never be totally "over it" though, it will get easier to live on. I bet as soon as he starts to even consider that "sh!te, that actually really was my child who died"....his emotions probably put a big halt to that thought process as it's way too painful and he moves straight onto what he tells you....."it was too early to be a real baby" or whatever. They don't feel all the initial changes our bodies go through as soon as there is a growing bubba in our bellies. We're all here though, and you know that we all "get it" xoxo

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    I'm a bag of mixed emotions at the moment....I've done my IVF cycle and had one embryo put back on board last Saturday. My blood test is this Tuesday to see if we have a sticky. I'm super super nervous for either outcome! Am I ready for this??! I really don't know. I'll see if I can hold out on POAS until the morning of the blood test......I've had super strong lines, decent hCG levels AND good growth/normal heart beats during scans before and it didn't mean anything.....we lost those bubs anyway.

    I think I'll have to just have to set little milestones to conquer and go from there if I get my BFP....

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    Hi ladies I've not posted on this thread for 4 months or so since my second miscarriage - but sometimes I still feel a wave of sadness... I want to say I'm sorry to see more people join the thread and it doesn't matter how far a long you it still hurts

    I've finally started my first IVF cycle since the miscarriage having had a break which included getting away overseas and getting married - we needed something good to happen this year! I slightly freaked out when I had my first scan to check my follies, I found out about both miscarriages at scans so they now make me extremely nervous... But today had EPU and got 11 eggs so one hurdle completed.

    My FS put me through a load of blood tests after the miscarriage and everything was fine hut did discovered I am borderline (very borderline) in terms of NK cells so has put me on the Bondi protocol, I also found out the sex of the baby as we did the panorama test, it was a girl - my DH didn't want yo know so I have not been able to tell anyone... And when I thought about the baby I always thought girl - I even have a pink baby outfit, which I bought since the miscarriage to help keep me positive that it will happen... Thank you for listening


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    @Rarah11 - big hugs to you. Finding out our lost bub was a boy was so hard to hear, but gave me a bit of closure knowing what HE was, you know? x We named him Noah, because it was dear to us, and we would likely have chosen it as a top name if he was born.
    @Ladydee - Good luck with your TWW. xxxx

    We've been waiting around for what feels like forever for a cycle to come back. Finally had one, and now we're waiting to do our last FET with the remaining little frosty embryo. Have an appt with the fertility specialist next week in case this fails, because we'll need to start from scratch again.

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    Thanks @mrsjaguar it made it more real and gave me more hope that bit can really happen which I know sounds strange - good luck with your FET


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    Well......two pink lines came up on my stick today! 4th BFP in the past year... can I even handle this?! I just want to be naively happy like any other normal woman but DH and I are bursting with fear. Pleeeeease let this be our healthy take-home bubba! My blood test is not until Tuesday so that will be our second milestone to conquer I'm trying to tell myself that there's no way to the healthy take-home bub at the end without first passing these initial milestones.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ladydee View Post
    Well......two pink lines came up on my stick today! 4th BFP in the past year... can I even handle this?! I just want to be naively happy like any other normal woman but DH and I are bursting with fear. Pleeeeease let this be our healthy take-home bubba! My blood test is not until Tuesday so that will be our second milestone to conquer I'm trying to tell myself that there's no way to the healthy take-home bub at the end without first passing these initial milestones.
    Sending lots of baby dust ur way Hun

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    Thanks so much @lilyloubelle - I wish you the same success ASAP! Xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ladydee View Post
    Well......two pink lines came up on my stick today! 4th BFP in the past year... can I even handle this?! I just want to be naively happy like any other normal woman but DH and I are bursting with fear. Pleeeeease let this be our healthy take-home bubba! My blood test is not until Tuesday so that will be our second milestone to conquer I'm trying to tell myself that there's no way to the healthy take-home bub at the end without first passing these initial milestones.
    More baby dust coming your way

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