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    Sirine, I want to say how sorry I am for your loss, its truly devastating. Our stories are so similar, we found out a few days before our 12 weeks scan that my estranged brother and his wife were pregnant and we shared the same EDD! Sadly at our scan we found out our little one had passed. We hadnt told many about our pregnancy and had to suffer though everyone congratulating us on becoming an aunty and uncle. It was the hardest time of my life and now I will be forever reminded of our loss when I hear of my niece/nephew.
    The universe has a funny way of screwing with us doesnt it?

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    Hi Lovely ladies.. I have just found this thread .. I notice some women on here that were in my Due date thread .. Sirine and Rushie .. Ii found out about my MMC at our 12 week scan .. bub had no heartbeat, but my body still had not recognised the loss .. I ended up having a full D&C on the 23rd oct .. I am still physically recovering ( still bleeding and cramping 3 weeks later ) .. not to mention the obvious emotional suffering that we are all going through .. i wanted to share with you the l feeling of love and support .. it is comforting to know ( although Sad ) that we are not alone ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by maturemum1501 View Post
    Hi Lovely ladies.. I have just found this thread .. I notice some women on here that were in my Due date thread .. Sirine and Rushie .. Ii found out about my MMC at our 12 week scan .. bub had no heartbeat, but my body still had not recognised the loss .. I ended up having a full D&C on the 23rd oct .. I am still physically recovering ( still bleeding and cramping 3 weeks later ) .. not to mention the obvious emotional suffering that we are all going through .. i wanted to share with you the l feeling of love and support .. it is comforting to know ( although Sad ) that we are not alone ..
    Welcome to the group! It isn't very active from what i can tell it is an old group (Rushie's posts are from June) but i joined anyways and have had some chats with others in similar situations.
    You shouldn't be still bleeding and cramping this long after your d&c. I had mine around the same time as you but only bled for about a week. Have you seen a Dr since the procedure? Our stories are so similar -As you reminded the group in your post we are not alone. If you need to chat or cry out just vent an message... Huggz take care of you

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    Hi sirine! I was sent to the ED by my GP cause I couldn't get an ultrasound for 2-3 weeks ( hoping that the hospital would do one do that we would know what was going wrong) they only did a visual exam and sent for a refresh to a gyno then sent me home to wait.. That was last Monday. I seem to have stopped bleeding last night.. Hopefully?? And now have the gyno appt booked for next Monday.. Hopefully they can also shed some light on why we lost our bub?? And on what our options are from here.. What about you.. How are you coping .. If you are considering trying again.. There is also a support group for those TTC after miscarriage..

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    Hope all is good for you this week. I think I have my first period since the d&c ( more like spotting), my sister in law is due to deliver her bub any minute and i received some baby bump pics from a family member due around the same time as i would have been so have had a bumpy week. Don't be a stranger I'm here to chat. Take care of you

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    Hi Sirene. I was still spotting from D&C til Tuesday just gone.. Almost 4 weeks. Doctor ordered bloods and another ultrasound cause HCG levels still hadn't returned to Zero.. I had them done Thursday, and get the results Monday 25th from gyno at the hospital. Hopefully all has settled down now?? I just want to know that all is " normal" If there is such a thing..
    The gyno recommended that we wait a few months before trying again ( if we decide to ) so that my body has a chance to heal properly .. I guess it's the same for all of us.. We are conflicted at the moment.. Now that I know it's possible, I really want to try again.. But DH is reluctant now that he also knows the risks, and the pain / disappointment of the loss.. I just don't want to regret never trying again.. But yes.. We are now 40+ and every year comes with more risk.. I hope that you and DP are settling down.. Although you never really can get over it.. Each day it gets easier to lol at babies or talk about the experience.
    2 weeks ago I found myself sitting in a foodcourt with my mum and deliberately sitting with my back to a new mum with her bub, cause I couldn't even look at them.. And my mum telling me to " get over it!!" I was not impressesed, and snapped at her that I will never get over it!!

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    That's a big reason why we held off and didn't tell anyone. As hard the loss is I don't think i could handle the comments or judgements. I'm also not good with pity so would snap at people who are just trying to save my feelings. The jury is still out for me and whether i want to try again. My partner and i haven't discussed it at all, I think we had both resigned to not having children so the pregnancy caught us both off guard. We don't use any form of both control (and haven't for the last 6 years) so it's all in the hands of mother nature - what will be will be.

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    Hi Sirine.. Our stories/situations sound so similar.. Wehadnt used BC since we married 10 yrs ago.. And had resigned ourselves to never having children.. So yes we were very surprised too.
    But now we know it's possible I don't want any regrets.. But.. Also now knowing it's possible means that we now need to decide.. Do we leave it up to mothernature again? Or do we take stock, now we are getting older and acknowledge risks that we may impose on any future child and ourselves?? Therefore do we start using BC now or not..
    I think we all have some talking.. And heavy thinking to do!!

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    Update: saw gyno at hospital to get results today. Nothing showing to explain lengthy recovery.. Just one of those things.. Still showing HCG level of 8?? They would prefer to see it 0-5.. But it has dropped since last test so they aren't concerned. Ultrasound shows nothing abnormal.. Which is a relief.. I guess we are all different..

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    Hhi ladies, I think I'll join in here for a little while if you don't mind? I just had a d&c today at 8.5 weeks. It was a long and stressful 8.5 weeks plagued by low, slow rising betas, suspected ectopic, but thankfully not, then last week, my FS told me that I had miscarried, we had a follow up scan only to find a heart beat, which was only 76 bpm. We had another week of waiting and then confirmation of no heartbeat today at 2pm, so I had a d&c at about 7 tonight. I think I grieved this loss two weeks ago when my betas were stagnating, but I did wake up crying after the d&c in recovery and couldn't stop. My poor DH is the eternal optimist so this has hit him hard tonight. We have done 6 rounds of IVF and one FET to get here so it's hard to think about returning to go without collecting $200 so to speak.
    We have one lonely frostie left so will look at using that, but I honestly think now I'd rather move onto donor eggs to increase our chances of a healthy viable pregnancy. We'll see, and give ourselves some space to grieve. I really am a 'get back on the horse' type though.
    Anyway, I'm looking for a safe place to post about how I am feeling, without being the Debbie Downer on the other threads where I post. I hope you'll have me xx
    PS this post has turned out much longer than I intended... perhaps it's the endone!
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