So sorry you're going through this lilyloubelle. Even having a d&c straight up with our first loss (12.5wks but baby measured 8.5wks), I still had bleeding/spotting for a number of weeks
I took the drugs with our 2nd loss (10wks) hoping to avoid a repeat d&c. I had the follow up scans but sadly still required a d&c about 4wks after initially passing the sac due to retained lining. I stopped bleeding about 2wks after passing the sac so had to go through it all again when I had to have the d&c.
I really hope things work themselves out for you, the waiting in limbo is just such a kick in the guts
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