auntyg : there are times where we need to remind ourselves that our partners are healing too. Sometimes we ( us and DP ) get so overcome with certain situations that we forget that we each heal ( emotionally and physically ) at different rates and that different situations tend to bring different reactions.
It takes ad long as it takes.,
Re bleeding : I bled longer than 4 weeks ( almost 6) and asked for a followip ultrasound to reassure that all was good.
As for deciding on your futureregarding trying for another. Give it time..
We are now less than 2 weeks from our angels estimated due date, and I still can't get my DH to even discuss wether we are going to try again..
Remember that we tried for 10 years and had all but given up when along came our angel baby., and at over 40 the decision to try again is complex. We need to way up all medical and age concerns with raw emotion and the natural desire to be parents.