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    Quote Originally Posted by littleduck View Post
    Sorry if I've upset anyone by posting before - Pinkblue had asked how I was going so I was just responding to that by being honest.
    Hi littleduck.. As I said.. I just didn't find it appropriate for this site..
    Maybe best put in a private message next time.
    Im sure we are all Happy to read of your wishes of support and understanding of our situation all the same..
    Thank you

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    I'm sorry you feel uncomfortable maturemum! I understand why you feel uncomfortable. I feel a little different...

    For me, any support is good! I do like seeing that the ladies who have gone thru mc like us are actually able to have children again-gives me some hope.

    I commented in this section when I was pregnant recently before my second mc only because I know how this felt

    Unfortunately I'm back here. I don't want to stop commenting even if I'm lucky enough to carry a child again. For me, I was still mourning my first loss as well and I'll forever mourn both now.

    I never spoke about scans, etc. because no one asked me how I was actually going so I never had to answer such a question. I don't know if I'd answer specifically or be vague.

    AFM-I got a preg announcement today-3 days after my July due date. I'm devastated! I was going alright and now I'm in a hole. I hope everyone else has been spared the always crushing child-related announcements of late 💘❤️💜✌️

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    Chillies.. As in my post, deep inside I to am happy for those who can conceive again, and I am happy to hear of that news..
    However the i think that the ongoing details of their pregnancy are best posted either in a private message if asked.. Or maybe on the due dates sites.. I agree i too like that others ( who have been through this ) come back to this site to give their support, and that it's good to hear the initial news and .. Yes .. It does givev all of us hope for the future..
    I Just feel even more upset hearing the details..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinkblue View Post
    Hi ladies, got on really well with the councillor, it was a huge help. She has suggested not seeing anyone (ie all my friends) who is pregnant or has young kids over the next month as studies have shown better outcomes. She thinks I have postnatal depression, which can happen after a miscarriage. All those crazy hormones! Crazy huh, talk about getting the raw end of the stick! No baby and PND!!!

    As such, I'll be taking a bubhub vacation for a while until things have settled down for me. Well I'll try, I'm a tad addicted!

    I'd recommend seeing someone if you feel the need, I'm surprised how good she was.

    Good luck ladies, hoping there good news for you all when I'll touch base in a month or so xxx
    Was your therapist a specialist in the field of miscarriage? I'm contemplating seeing someone, some days are better than others and I am constantly bombarded with news of friends pregnancies or baby news and while I am genuinely 100%happy for them I also feel a twinge of jealousy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by maturemum1501 View Post
    Chillies.. As in my post, deep inside I to am happy for those who can conceive again, and I am happy to hear of that news..
    However the i think that the ongoing details of their pregnancy are best posted either in a private message if asked.. Or maybe on the due dates sites.. I agree i too like that others ( who have been through this ) come back to this site to give their support, and that it's good to hear the initial news and .. Yes .. It does givev all of us hope for the future..
    I Just feel even more upset hearing the details..
    Maturemum, as in my post-I understand where you're coming from n am sorry u felt uncomfortable X

    Quote Originally Posted by Nikita333 View Post
    Was your therapist a specialist in the field of miscarriage? I'm contemplating seeing someone, some days are better than others and I am constantly bombarded with news of friends pregnancies or baby news and while I am genuinely 100%happy for them I also feel a twinge of jealousy.

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    It sucks big time Nikita, I wondered the same thing about the therapist being a specialist? Do u have anyone in ur area who u could engage? I haven't thought about it for myself.
    Last edited by Chillies; 09-01-2014 at 22:48.

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    Sorry that discussion about our current and ongoing fears and concerns and support regarding our current pregnancies after recent/and recurrent miscarriages has upset you. After a miscarriage one goes through different emotions and everyone is different.

    I have looked through the threads and there is no place for those who have just conceived after recent miscarriage to talk with others (to both support those currently going through mc or have conceived again) and where they would feel comfortable discussing their current circumstances and fears whilst being acceptable to you. Your recommendation of discussing amongst the due dates does not work - most go to facebook and it is good to talk to people who you know and also understand where you are coming from.

    I would start up a new thread that can be more open for such discussion and support, being more sensitive towards others like yourself who would prefer to hear only of and support current mc'ing circumstances but it will most likely not stay current enough to be used. I will be sure to only use personal messages in future to support women I know who share the same unfortunate circumstances.

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    If anyone is interested I've just started a thread called pregnant after miscarriage.

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    Thanks greencheese, I'm really hoping I can join in soon...

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    Thank you Green Cheese - hopefully it can become a sticky so it isn't lost and lots of women in here can be there soon. Will still keep an eye on this thread to see how everyone is.

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    Perfect Green Cheese! I will join just to catch up on you guys but also with the intention of joining you hehe


 

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