DD doesn't know any of my family and DS doesn't remember them so it has made it alot easier to forget about them all together.
My kids love DHs family and they more than make up for my side being completely absent.
No loss to them and no stress for me and DH doesn't have to see me upset so its a win for everyone
OP do what you have To for you and your DH. If cutting mil will save stress and anger do it. You will both feel much better in the end
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