My sister has always had a bit of a jealous streak but it seems to have gotten a little worse then normal. So recently I have decided enough was enough and have gone through a lifestyle change and started eating healthy and exercising and have lost so far 15kg while I feel great I am the first one to admit I have a long way to go. Anyway after the first 10 kg went my sister asked me what I had been doing and once I told her she jumped in and started the same thing, my first thought was great and I started helping her with encouragement and tips that I found helped me. The other day however I found out through mutual friends she has been saying to people that I will give in soon and go back to being as fat as ever and that she is running around town buying body wraps and an twisters pretty much anything that will make her lose more then me quicker.
She also has a baby who is 7 months old then my little one and she came over the other night and every time my Mum (who lives with us 1 week a fortnight because she is a FIFO worker) went to pick up my baby or talk to him she shoved her little one at my Mum, which didn't bother me because I expected it but when her little fella hit mine on top of the head not hard just a baby tap she laughed so he thought it was a game and kept doing it until both Mum and I told him NO! She left in a huffy not long after. I should also add it was the next day I found she had been saying all this.
I usually brush her jealous antics off because she always has to somehow make everyone's focus on her and I just ignore it all. But I can't help feel hurt she is doing all this, DH says it is just her so don't worry about it but I was so proud of what I have achieved and to have things like this being said is making me feel horrible, and her baby hitting mine makes me really angry but I know he was just doing it to make his mother laugh. Am I right to feel these things or am I overreacting and should just ignore it like always?