A week before Christmas I gave my husband a bib and baby santa hat. He just looked at it and said what is it I eventually had to tell him we are having a baby lol. I wrapped one up for the in laws and my parents ( my parents are in Brisbane ) . My mil and sil got it straight away fil didn't get it. Next my parents called and they opened it with close family my mother and little sis screamed the house down which was lovely because when I had my first mum didn't speak to me for 3 months dad got it after a little while. Later mil told close family we were visiting. We waited until 13 -14 wks to tell people on facebook I put a bun in the oven captioned look what I'm baking most ppl got it some just didn't get it haha.