I know how you feel
I had a bag of unisex clothing, some bedding/wraps, a few toys, portable cot and rocker bouncer before we even began ttc!
When we got our first bfp, 2 days later we laybyd our pram, with bassinet attachment, and some extra stuff like more blankets, bubs etc. I mcd a week later by the time I got my bfp with ds. about 7 weeks later, it was all on our spare bed...but I was so profited of mc again and jinxing myself, I only let myself get one item every 2 weeks until 13wks... Then I went crazy
We spent $300+ on clothes when we found out the sex...totally didn't think it through. He never wore half of them because they were the wrong size and season! We shopped in october, he was born in march!
I have a serious shopping problem! Even now I browse baby stuff online, always reading reviews etc