So eloquently put BinB. I would dearly love to see you have your own little bundle of love very soon. Lots of (sparkly pink baby dust) Heading your way.Hi Girls......................
Mrs P...........Glad to hear AF's finally arrived and you're feeling better in that regard. It's like the hormonal river has burst its banks when she does finally show up after a cycle!!! Oh luv, am sorry you're feeling so blue at the moment And as much as you love your in-laws, I'm sure you'll be a lot happier once you have your own space again. Have you got a house now or are you still looking for one??
Of course you're feeling sad about the fact the cycle didn't go as planned and that you're at the end of your IVF journey. Even though you've got DS, that doesn't diminish your desire for another bub and I'm not surprised you're entertaining the D.E. idea as that desire is still burning strong atm. Would you and your DH consider it??? Or is it a case of being satisfied (and I know you're grateful, so won't go there) with your DS and quitting while you're ahead??
Kenta.......Yep, it's true, we do have to think about how far we're willing/able to go to have a baby. I haven't given up yet either, but I know time is quickly running out for my eggs. Have you got a date for your scratch yet??? And who's your FS (if you don't mind me asking)??? I thought it was WDA, but it seems not though it sounds like you've been with him before?? Maybe I've got it all wrong?? (wouldn't be the first time).
Emski........Hello luv, been following you over on the over 40's thread and it seems you've got this D.E. thing all sorted!!! I'm stalking you with interest too girl and keeping my for you all the way!!! Are you going to transfer your frostie before you do the D.E. cycle???
Dom........Last, but certainly not least is you my girl How did your follow up go??? Did he have anything new to tell you that you didn't already know/suspect?? How are you feeling now luv??? I'm worried about you girl. I know you're a strong woman and you'll work through this in your own time, but my heart breaks for you because I, too, feel that same pain when I think of never having my own biological child as well
I know you and your DP are looking into the D.E. option, so this grieving process you're going through I have no doubt will pave the way for you to then begin your D.E. journey if that's what you so wish. Nevertheless, it totally sux and would be a hell of a lot easier just to skip that part and get on to the next chapter!!!
Am sure this sojourn in Bali will be just the ticket for you and your DP to just get away from this whole TTC caper and "to clear the cobwebs" so to speak!!! You've both been through the wringer and well and truly deserve to get away and have some fun..(Oh, hello land of the living, have missed you whilst I've been holed up in the "IVF Cave" for the last x-amount of months/years.....)
Ok my lovely ladies, am hoping you all have a beautiful weekend Sorry its taken so long to do personals, has been a bit crazy the last couple of days Will update as more info comes to hand. Until next time............