Dom and BinB you are both wonderful kindred spirits and so deserving of your own children. I also have the same pangs of wishing this was all a lot easier. I married DH at 38 and started trying not to know that DH had bad sperm as he was fit and healthy. We tried for a year before we decided to try ivf. Now after 2 years and 9 cycles (8 fresh and 1 FET) there are times I just want certainty in this process and not the continued promise or need for a miracle. I often wish I had met DH years earlier. Never thought I would not be able to have our own biological child when we started but as time goes by, I have to start preparing myself for this. We are putting all our eggs so to speak now in the basket of our 2 frozen embryos as I don't know how things can get better for us in terms of quality if we haven't been able to make embryos in the last 2yrs.
BinB what a tough time you are going through. You must be angry and shocked by the error. I think an FSH of 10 is ok. I also have googled up on causes of high prolactin levels and sounds like you have covered it all. I hope you can get all you answers tomorrow. I have never had a prolactin level done. I wonder why WDA does it? Maybe it's because of your thyroid problem. Good luck tomorrow. I've had an MRI, it's not too bad and safe, probably best to do it to be certain and have the answer.
Dom hang in there. I talked to a chinese accupuncturist and she said to keep going with my eggs until 43....that's another year for me too. I was a bit teary last night thinking about all of this but also have to be grateful for a lot of other things.