I'm wondering how others deal with their ex partners controlling behaviour after they have split up. I'm finding it hard to find a place to live and my ex has found me somewhere and is letting me keep the car and all our possessions most people would think he is being generous, gracious etc... But I believe this is further emotional manipulation. Maybe I'm just losing it a little. I just don't want to feel like I owe him. He has been so controlling of me for so many years and I just need to have a clean break from him. I'm also worried that he will continue to manipulate me after we're split he's already asking who's going to be at a social event I'm going to in a few weeks? Will there be men there? Etc.. Sorry for the ramble I'm just so anxious at the moment.