Long term also, sorry if I'm repeating I haven't read every single post - but unless there's an underlying medical /genetic reason to have a preference for a girl or boy, if it's a matter of there's a perceived life with a particular gender they want, like I'll totally emphasise with gender disappointment. I actively Ttc knowing I'd be heartbroken if I didn't have a girl. Not that having a boy was the issue it was the thought of *never* having a girl.
But so what if they go on to have a boy - and he's not everything the wanted a BOY to be. They want a boy so intensely they'd abort a daughter on the basis of her gender..... What if their boy isn't into sports and trucks or whatever it may be that they see a boy will fulfil for them.
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