Thinking about this thread reminded me of a story my mother told me many years ago about when she was a midwife. It was just after gender scanning had begun and they were able to tell people what they were having. A Chinese couple were told they were having a girl. He was furious. Within a week she was admitted to emergency as she had fallen down a flight of stairs. She lost the baby. She was unable to have any more kids. My mother cared for her and she said the woman never spoke to a soul not even her husband. No one knew but everyone suspected he had pushed her or she had thrown herself down the stairs.
I guess when I think about that and separate my own circumstances from the reality for some people I understand why abortion has to be freely available. I may hate that it is, but I get why it has to be. I imagine in many countries where abortion isn't legal and safe many women simply die if they are carrying a baby that is unwanted due to its sex.
I don't know how to say this without sounding culturally insensitive which is not my intent but given abortions for this reason are likely to be cultural in the most part, and that these people would be extremely unlikely to have access to overseas gender selection I guess the reality is abortion is in most states legal past the point where gender testing is done so it doesn't really matter what I think about it. And that has to be preferable to situations like what my mother described.