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    I just thought I would update you all on where I finished up. On the 17th May 2013 at 20:04 I gave birth to my son, Chance who weighed just 50grams. I kept him with me and my husband overnight and in the morning I said goodbye and he is now being cremated and will be back with us soon. I got the most beautiful pair of footprints and I am getting a tattoo on Thursday in his memory. Although we made the decision that was right for our whole family the loss of him from our lives has left a massive hole in our hearts. It has been without doubt the hardest thing I have every had to do. When we sat down and told the other kids we all shed many tears. They understand as best they can and I can tell they are trying very hard to be good for Mummy while I am feeling so lost. I have had overwhelming support from my family and friends but nothing takes away the emptiness I feel. I know our decision was right for us all but that doesn't make it any easier.

    Thank you for all of your good wishes xxx

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    I'm so sorry sweetie. You've been amazingly strong. I wish I had words that would make this right but I don't.

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    Huge hugs you have been amazingly brave


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    Thank you for taking the time to update us. I'm sorry that you lost little baby Chance. Big hugs for all your family.

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    Thanks for sharing an update. Sending lots of hugs to you and your family.

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    Lots and lots of hugs to you and your family xoxo

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