Thanks balletbaby for listening - I am just frustrated and this is a good taste of the whole pregnancy waiting game/labour/kids. Not really predictable.
I have tried monitoring cm but this month was just like last month but AF just didn't turn up for 10 days. I haven't tried temping - might try opk's this cycle to try it out.
That is no good with your migraine - I used to have them regularly but haven't ha one in a while - they are the pits!