Jennilee - fantastic news on selecting your donor. So excited for you!! Thank you also for your lovely comments. It was through much soul searching that I embarked on this journey alone. I am blessed with a very close family and the truest of friends that have been incredibly supportive. I've also used my time to get financially well positioned and saving my leave etc. thankfully if all goes well, my long service leave is also next year so will be able to have a lengthy period of time off work. Very lucky :-)
BJ - I will only be transferring one embryo. I have already lost a little girl at 15 weeks so have become incredibly risk averse. For most people twins will be just wonderful, but I have a dodgy cervix and ? placenta accreta in the pregnancy with my little angel. I too would struggle on my own if I was blessed with double trouble so will be forever grateful for a healthy singleton!!