Hi betty, I had a 5dt on 21 Sep and my testing day was 2/10. I started getting AF type cramps on the weekend and got AF on my testing day. As I had to go to Westmead on my testing day they did a BT and it came up negative. I could be wrong, but it sounds like you might be out. My periods are always heavy and awful after a failed cycle and this time is no different. I don't take time off work after a failed cycle, but that's just because I'm afraid I'll need all my sick days and holidays for more cycles.
I'm not sure how long you have to wait for a FET, but I've heard on some threads that clinics will let you start in the next month.
I told my work, just because I don't like lying and get flustered, I'm also late sometimes after scans etc no matter how early I make the appointment!
I think the main difference with Westmead compared to other clinics is it's not for profit, so it doesn't cost as much (I've heard some clinics you have over $5,000 out of pocket after medicare rebate), so we don't see our FS during the cycle, just the nurses and EPU and ET we get whichever FS is rostered on rather than your own. We didn't do any research on other clinics before Westmead. We went to the information evening, liked Rachel's picture and made an appointment with her. We liked her approach and went with it from there.
Good luck to you.