FOB and I had a verbal agreement which was twice a week, plus RDOs (FOB gets 2 per mth additional). He kept missing the midweek visit (showed up for 1 of 4) so about 3 wks ago I just said I'm not making DD available for him at that time anymore and we'd have to sort something else out - he said he'd rather not have the extra visit.. Last wk I realised he hasnt had DD on an RDO for 5 wks, when I brought it up, he immediately got defensive and said he doesnt want her then either as he needs the time to himself! So we have gone from 10 visits a mth to 4, because he cant be bothered. On top of that he never actually showed up for the agreed visit yesterday, no phone call or msg, just didnt show. Needless to say I'm fuming, but what can I do? I have my first mediation appt in 2 wks, but what can I do in between that time? Can I cancel visitation until we attend mediation given we have no parenting orders? FOB is of the impression I have no choice but to work to his schedule when it suits him and theres nothing I can do..
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