Hugs to you J..
Jo you have done nothing wrong wanting another child.... Things are probably very tender right now and everybody copes with grief/failures differently. Sometimes the Dhs say things meaning to be protective and just make things worse. You don't have to make any decisions now ... Just rest and your heart and body will heal. So will Dhs with time. Be kind to yourself and keep us posted on your progress. So sorry for your loss. X
Joviolet my heart goes out to you. What a rough time you are having. I agree with pp - give your DH time and talk to him about your feelings. He might just need some time to get over what has just happened to you. I can imagine the thought of possibly losing your wife and having to raise a young child on your own is very daunting - I know from my recent brush with death my DH was all upside-down over this as he had never even considered it was a possibility.
I think you shouldn't feel bad about wanting another child, it is very natural. I would suggest talk to a counsellor or social worker - I am and she is really helping me to process my own feelings but also helping how I approach those around me (DH, family, work etc). She just seems to know the right thing to say!!
Big hugs x
Joviolet So sorry for your bad news
Im on CD 9 =stim day 8 and I had a scan today with my FS but he found no sign of any follicles so he has upped my dosage of gonal f and I have another scan on friday to see if it helps at all.
For roll call - my BT is June 18th.
Thankyou Littlesunflowers! Have updated on page 1. How are you feeling?
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