I worry about health risks with two as well, but I honestly don't feel it's possible for both to implant with my dodgy eggs/embies. If it did happen, it would have to be fate, regardless of the health risks we may face! I often wonder the same about how we would cope with a baby. It's all I've wanted for 14 years now, but sometimes I think, "Wow, do I really want to change my life like that?? What if after all this money and heartbreak, I hate being a mum??" I think it's normal, especially when you're doing IVF, cause we have so much longer to dwell/imagine/worry on things than people who are just bonking away every month.I'm finding that the longer we spend TTC the more time there is to wonder if we can really cope with a baby (despite the fact that I've always wanted kids and never wondered that before). I'm concerned about the health risks with twins, but also if we could really cope with two babies. I think I'll ask FS for more info...I was so surprised at the time that I forgot to do that.