View Poll Results: Do you feel at all 'better' than those who have different fathers for their children?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sonja View Post
    So glad you're doing ok. Whta a mess he's made for himself. Am I correct that he ran off to have fun because he felt your second baby was too soon? And now he's going to have 3??

    Jeez, some people.
    Very correct! Although the jury is still out on whether the affair had already started by then, causing him not to want DS2.

    Now he will have 3 very nearly under 2yrs old (DS1 turns 2 in Sept, DS2 is 9wks & the gf is due Oct). His life has not turned out the way he was anticipating, that's for sure. Instead of freeing himself of stress, he has just doubled it.

    Sorry to derail OP!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pesca77 View Post
    Very correct! Although the jury is still out on whether the affair had already started by then, causing him not to want DS2.

    Now he will have 3 very nearly under 2yrs old (DS1 turns 2 in Sept, DS2 is 9wks & the gf is due Oct). His life has not turned out the way he was anticipating, that's for sure. Instead of freeing himself of stress, he has just doubled it.

    Sorry to derail OP!
    Your ex is a knob, getting his own karma back... Haha!

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    Oh good grief Pesca. Words completely fail me

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    I love a good karma story!

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    Oh Pesca I am loving the karma sandwich he is eating right now... That's so damn funny, I hope it's ok to say that. He has made a right royal mess of everything! Couldn't have happened to a nicer tool

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marepoppin View Post
    Oh Pesca I am loving the karma sandwich he is eating right now... That's so damn funny, I hope it's ok to say that. He has made a right royal mess of everything! Couldn't have happened to a nicer tool
    Your post nearly made me spit my drink out, ha!

    If I'm completely honest, there is a teeny tiny evil part of me that is smiling about what he's done to his life so quickly.

    I now know I'll be able to move on and be happy with my boys. I still get to see them every day. He doesn't. I win. The End!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pesca77 View Post
    Thanks I'm actually doing ok. Her pregnancy through me off track, but I'm now focused solely on my boys and not him.

    Yep, he isn't happy about the next baby on the way. This is not what he planned - he ran away from his responsibilities to have some 'fun'. He's now financially screwed for the next 18yrs.

    Karma can be a b!tch
    So does that mean he wants you back?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigRedV View Post
    So does that mean he wants you back?
    He hasn't said that, but I do believe he misses parts of his life with us now, after a few comments he has made. He also ignores me when I mention divorce papers & whenever the gf is raised in conversation, there is usually a negative comment by him.

    Who knows....but for me it's over. It's not a conversation I'd even entertain.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pesca77 View Post
    He hasn't said that, but I do believe he misses parts of his life with us now, after a few comments he has made. He also ignores me when I mention divorce papers & whenever the gf is raised in conversation, there is usually a negative comment by him.

    Who knows....but for me it's over. It's not a conversation I'd even entertain.
    Ahh isn't hindsight a brilliant thing?!? Well there goes all his freedom and fun! Pesca I think that karma has worked it's magic particularly quickly for you which is great

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