Hi Lilmiss I am in a similar boAt to you. My husband and I have always wanted 3 kids with about 2 yr age gaP. I am currently pregnant with # 2 and my mum is always commenting on how hard it's going to be and being negative.
Also if I make a comment abouta 3rd she says things like "let's see how
You go with 2 before you commit' or 'your just making babis for the sake of it'
Makes me so mad she feels she has a say in any capacity on my family. Admittedly I struggled with pretty bad morning sickness my first 16 weeks so maybe she is co concerned.. DH and I are pretty sure we want a small gap between this one and the next one and I do worry about her reaction but you know what??? What can she do about it???
In the end she will come around as I know your family will...