I'm 25, married, motivated and embarking on a very intense career path where there is never an ideal time to have kids. Having my father tell me that my husband's and my decision to have a very wanted baby (currently pregnant) is a mistake 'at this stage in life' and that I made the wrong decision makes me angry. You have no right to judge, and even if you think that, what is the point of telling me. The dice is already cast, be happy for us and support us. Your negative comments don't help.