DS has been going to his dad's every Wed and every second Sat and Sun but not overnight because he currently doesn't sleep in his own bed.
He doesn't seem to be enjoying spending time at his dad's when it's time to drop him off he locks the car door and says 'I'm not going' then his father will pretty much bribe him to get out of the car like come on I'll take you to the park/buy you an ice cream/we will go to Maccas. He has even cried before we left the house before so I tell his dad that he is too sick to go. I know that lying is bad but I'd feel worse handing over my child kicking and screaming cuz he doesn't want to go.
My main concerns with his dad is:
He seems to only want DS because he can sticky beak into my life, well he tries to anyway.
I've had to delete ppl off facebook cuz he stalks it and thinks I'm ganging up on him if I block his account he will look at it from his gfs or make a fake account
He will drive past my house just to see if Im home at night
I was seeing a guy but ex soon made sure to mess that up when he inboxed the guy telling him that no one was going to take his place in his son's life cuz he would knock anyone out that tried. Also told the guy that I'm a psycho that gets men locked up!
My biggest concern is when DS was there last he came home and told me 'daddy broke his car he had two wheels off it' he was working on his car while DS was in his care!!
DS was meant to go there yesterday but I heard nothing from his father cuz he forgot about it! So he is going today.. so I'll be sitting here all day worrying about what's happening.
Sorry about my long whinge!