Good vibes calstar! We all have everything crossed for you!
Nomie, I didn't have a baby shower or have ever been to one, so I can't help you out sorry. I guess it depends on the type of people who are going, if their not the type to let go and have fun being silly I wouldn't try to many crazy games. I do like the guessing the baby game thingy. Where the guest guess gender, size, birth date and stuff. Good luck!
Well last night we had a chance to bd for the first time as ttcer's! It was all going so well I had had my o and DH was very close behind but he baulked and lost it. I had to do a few other things to help him finish which ment the sperms did not get to where they were supposed too! I can totally understand though, I asked when we were first starting if he wanted to use a little hat, (our last one) but he said no. I just think the reality struck us both a bit. We will see how we go next time!