Thanks Amy...your reply made me cry so nice to have support. I just feel crap cause for my mum and dad she was an angel I agree she seem to be testing me! It's do cruel...."why baby why do you do this!!"
DH ended up settling her, he wrapped her with her arms in... Which is not what we normally do, she went to sleep... Don't know if that was the difference, you know how it is, sometimes weird things work! She fell asleep almost instantly! After almost half hour of drizzling/crying before hand.
I'm going out for a coffee with my friends and DH is looking after her for a bit.